Question: When a women experiences menstruation, usually she will be affected by PMS/PMT (Premenstrual symptoms/tension).This is physical, mental and emotional behaviour. It affects some women before their periods and others after their periods.

I have huge problems after my periods. This affects the people around me. I understand this is not a good habit however it is out of my control. At this time I tend to have mood swings, feel emotionally down, and feel upset as well as anger. I am hurt by small things and I’m likely to cry often. I get headaches and feel generally ill. I usually just keep silent and not say much and just keep myself to myself however whenever this happens my mother shouts at me and blames me for other things. I do all the housework and she will still say I do nothing at all. She will just ignore me and treat me differently. She says all my namaz or any ibadat I do is washed away when this happens. Is this true?

Answer: What your mother said is not true. It is she who is in the wrong. She should not be treating you so harshly, she will be questioned on the Day of Qiyamat. Accepting deeds is Allah’s business. He accepts and he rejects, How can she judge what will be accepted and what won’t be?

Do your khidmat as much as you can and Inshallah Allah will reward you in full.
Allah says, “If you are good then he is Forgiving for those who turn to him”(17:25)

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